Obviously this is some forward thinking. Something that I had troubles doing. I got anxious looking into the future. Scared. … Continue reading Heather’s Rules of Engagement
I’m still trying to figure out how this whole “moving in with my boyfriend and I have a kid” thing … Continue reading HTF Blender Family Part 2
So I knew this would be a thing at some point. The inevitable conversation on joining the households. Not marriage. … Continue reading Blending Families… HTF does this work?!?!
I keep telling him he doesn’t understand what it’s like to be the “Mom” me. He gets snippets. Quick bursts … Continue reading Operation: Toddler Proof My Boyfriend
Warning: This is a ranting whiny relationshipy post. Sorry.
I’ve known this fact but denied it for months. I feel I can no longer continue my journey with J.
I wanted this to work. Not because it was convenient. Not because it was a rebound. Not because I need it.
It’s NOT a LOVE triangle though… DEFINITELY.
So I’ve been officially divorced for almost a year now (One month from today is the year).
I have been dating J for a little over a year.
I have been a Mom for two and a half.
I was a Wife for 7.
And so far I have been a stable emotional being for 0 years.
I know now with my new life is new obstacles. Most of which I am not ready for.
Now here is the scenario: Continue reading “The Wrong Kind of “Love” Triangle.”
Cliches annoy me. They roll too easy off the tongue and involve little thought. But they exist because they are mostly true.
They say that:
Home is where the heart is.
It’s like a stupid sign I would hang in the living room as a decoration. I had certainly bought into that idea without putting thought into. Like, yes my address where I live is also where my family lives. And until the divorce the idea of “Home” was simply a structure with walls and roof. A home was a thing you paint and fill. Something you pay for and something you can sell. Continue reading “Home.”